Follow your dreams.
Don't let them die.
Let your soul lead wherever it takes you.
Don't ask why.
Just follow, follow, follow.

You are the light of your own soul.
Look deep inside
Be your own guide, and
Listen, listen, listen.

You have the answers only you know.
Trust your own truth, and
See your strength grow.
Just trust it, trust it, trust it.

Show the world who you are.
You have to sing your own song.
Don't wait too long.
Just sing it, sing it, sing it!

~ Darlene Lancer

Follow your dreams.
Don't let them die.
Let your soul lead wherever it takes you.
Don't ask why.
Just follow, follow, follow.

You are the light of your own soul.
Look deep inside
Be your own guide, and
Listen, listen, listen.

You have the answers only you know.
Trust your own truth, and
See your strength grow.
Just trust it, trust it, trust it.

Show the world who you are.
You have to sing your own song.
Don't wait too long.
Just sing it, sing it, sing it!

Darlene Lancer JD LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Psychotherapist in Santa Monica, CA

I bring a wide range of professional and life experience to my practice as a Licensed Psychotherapist and relationship and codependency expert. I wrote Codependency for Dummies and Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You. Over the course of 30 years, I’ve helped men and women find the courage and ability to live more fully and passionately.  More

Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Psychotherapist in Santa Monica, CA
Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT - Licensed Psychotherapist

“When we align with our soul, we find purpose, peace, and power.”

Darlene Lancer

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“Recommended over Codependent No More.” “Best book I ever read.” “A fantastic guide.” “A huge blessing!” “Absolute Godsend.”
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“Extremely powerful.” “Simply brilliant.” “Makes me feel loved.” “Helpful to men and women emotionally and verbally abused.”

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“By speaking up, setting limits, and learning to find compromises, my self-esteem has improved tenfold. Best ‘therapy’ available!” “Impactful and life-changing.”

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“Right away I started to feel more calm.” “Thought provoking and informative.” “Life-changing.” Enriching.” “Valuable insights.”

“So loving, Peaceful and releasing.” “I love it.” “Great meditation.” “Deeply intuitive.” “Tender, loving, serene, transformative.” “Very Healing.” “Very touching.” “Coming home with myself.”

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