Follow your dreams.
Don't let them die.
Let your soul lead wherever it takes you.
Don't ask why.
Just follow, follow, follow.

You are the light of your own soul.
Look deep inside
Be your own guide, and
Listen, listen, listen.

You have the answers only you know.
Trust your own truth, and
See your strength grow.
Just trust it, trust it, trust it.

Show the world who you are.
You have to sing your own song.
Don't wait too long.
Just sing it, sing it, sing it!

~ Darlene Lancer

Follow your dreams.
Don't let them die.
Let your soul lead wherever it takes you.
Don't ask why.
Just follow, follow, follow.

You are the light of your own soul.
Look deep inside
Be your own guide, and
Listen, listen, listen.

You have the answers only you know.
Trust your own truth, and
See your strength grow.
Just trust it, trust it, trust it.

Show the world who you are.
You have to sing your own song.
Don't wait too long.
Just sing it, sing it, sing it!

Darlene Lancer JD LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Psychotherapist in Santa Monica, CA

I bring a wide range of professional and life experience to my practice as a Licensed Psychotherapist and relationship and codependency expert. I wrote Codependency for Dummies and Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You. Over the course of 30 years, I’ve helped men and women find the courage and ability to live more fully and passionately. More

“When we align with our soul, we find purpose, peace, and power.”

Darlene Lancer

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